Ladies, at one point or another, we’ve all had that “back up guy” on deck in case we needed a quick date or some male company. You know the type: he’s more than a friend but nowhere near anyone we claim as our man. But have you ever wondered if you were someone else’s back up lady? In matters of the heart, lines can get blurred and many things can get lost in translation when you’re ignoring signs or being deceived, so here are some ways to tell if the guy you’re into is into you back, or if you’re simply his back up chick.
If he is not happy to introduce you in public: Some men will
call you his “lady” in private, but never claim you in public. By this he never
introduce you to friends or family, you both don’t need to have a social media
presence in order to be official, but if he doesn’t want anyone to know you
exist and says it’s because he’s “private” and doesn’t want anyone all up in
his business, what he’s REALLY saying is “I want to keep my options open.”
You’re not the one… just keep it moving cos you are in for the shock of your
life.
When you notice this crack in your walls , determine
to move ahead with life without including him in your future plans , bet you
things will get better with time.
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