5 Don’ts Women Make In Their Relationship

You know women are very much alike and similar in all respect, and tend to have certain justifications for their actions , in my submission , women should look beyond the now when in any relationship , which is why this is coming out to the woman.
Don’ts 1: Trying To Change Your Partner
This is a societal problem, even men themselves get married thinking they can change their partner, this is so wrong. Nowadays, we have wife beaters, at the slightest provocation will beat their wives every now and then, this is what the society as turned to. For the women, they just choose to ignore all the handwritings on the wall, because of love. But when the problem starts, love will not be enough to sustain the relationship or the marriage.
Women say to themselves "If they love me enough, they'll change to please me." So many believe that they can and will change their partner. It's only a matter of time. They say, "If he loves me enough, he'll change that small thing to please me." But to your partner, that "small thing" isn't so small. Even if they do try to change to please you, very often they become resentful. "You don't love me for myself, but for the person you want me to be," they say. And it's true. When you try to change them they feel you don't really love them. You just want to turn them into someone to fill your needs.

Don’ts 2: Feeling Like You're A Failure In Relationships

When some people see that things aren't working they become depressed. They start to feel as though they're not loveable, that destiny is against them or that they will always be a failure in love. The truth is that you're not a failure. You simple have not yet been taught important truths about relationships. Once you learn and practice new ideas and methods, you'll be able to handle your life in a way you may have never thought possible.

Don’ts 3: Believing You Have To Be "Good Enough" To Keep Their Love
Many feel they're not "good enough". They feel they have to turn into a man/ woman pleaser to keep their partner's love. Recently a woman came to me and said, "I finally found a wonderful man but I'm miserable in the relationship. Every day I worry that he'll find out who I really am and leave." This woman not only expected rejection, she actually did little things to bring it about. Soon she began to sabotage the relationship, finding fault with him at every turn. Although she didn't realize it, she did this to feel better about herself. The truth is we can never earn another person's love. The more we try the worse we feel. We must simply understand that who we truly are is entirely loveable. We must learn to make friends with ourselves. Woman love yourself

Finally a woman must know what it is they want, and to ask for it clearly (without producing guilt).