Heartbreak stories are like opinions and buttholes – everyone has one. And while it sucks to be going through emotional roller coasters, so much can be learned from relationships that don’t end in happily ever after. Here’s my advice on how to use that newly free time to treat yourself and get back right:
Travel
Nothing and I mean nothing – washes away the sadness of a failed relationship like traveling. You can go around the corner, down the street, or to another city, it doesn’t matter. A change of scenery (as well as drinking out of a coconut) will have you feeling brand-spanking-new. By travelling, you prepare yourself for a whole new experience gotten through a change of environment, you meet new people, you relax more and of course you begin your journey of personal healing
Be Self-Centered
I’ve found that a lot of people tend to be selfless in a relationship – and that’s good, but only up to a point. Constantly giving can be a drain on your time and your spirit, so now is the time to turn your attention to yourself. Focus on what you want out of life or a relationship, what makes you happy, and what you can do to be the best you that you can be. A bit of self-reflection can save you time, and heartbreak, in the future. By being self–centered , I mean you should be more selfish in nature, treat yourself more , enjoy your money and be happy . Do away with that sacrificial part of yourself, till you are done being healed. The key here is be happy.
Source : Madam Noire
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